DATING LIFE FOR BELLS
I feel like people put so much emphasis on dating. My mum is the worst, she puts so much pressure on me when it comes to having a boyfriend, she always says ‘Bells why did you go to university and not find a boyfriend’ it also seems to be a common issue with most of my close friends who are single. Trying to find Mr perfect who comes with no baggage is nearly impossible in this generation . I’m soon to be a cat lady as my clock is ticking away. WHERE DOES EVERYONE ELSE FIND THEM? OR AM I LOOKING IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES.
Dating life for me just seemed to be getting worse and worse Have you ever been on a date and the guy is whispering in your ear and telling you about the things he wish he could do to you? Why do men think it’s acceptable to talk to a lady like that?. It was the biggest turn off, it literally made me want to vom. I wasn’t quite sure how to respond to that but the date definitely went from Bad to worse. I had to message my friend to try and get me out of that awkward situation. It literally got to a stage in my life when I literally just gave up and hoped MR perfect would just come. By perfect I mean nice teeth, tall and good personality. Not too much to ask for, RIGHT?
Friends even advised me to join tinder and when I finally did, I matched with this really good looking Guy. He messaged me straight away and I got so excited, I was literally rehearsing what I was going to say to him, till I read his message and it said ‘ WOULD YOU LIKE TO GO TO DINNER THEN HOTEL?’ CAN YOU IMAGINNEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE. That was the same day I deleted my Tinder account. However I have a lot of friends that have met really nice guys on there, but online dating is just not for me . First of all you just never know what to write in the BIO and second of all it just seems so unnatural, so ISSSAAA NO.
It’s funny how things work out when your least expecting to talk to someone. Something always pops up. I was browsing through my Instagram as you do , Then BANG! I got a DM, when I got the DM I generally think it will be one of those freshies just trying it, LOL! I never take people who DM me seriously, or reply to their messages, but this time it was like GOD told me to give this one a chance. It ended up being this really nice guy, who made me laugh straight away and who caught my attention. We exchanged numbers and we’ve been talking and going on dates ever since. So my message to you single ladies would be, don’t knock it till you try it. ( SINGS ) * IT GOES DOWN IN THE DM IT GOOO DOWN *